The Engagement Story of
Elaine and Christopher


Read the thirty-second version.

The following is Elaine's account of the events on the day we were engaged to be married:

The day began when Chris gave me a gift bag containing a key chain with several keys attached late Saturday morning. Chris had taken the time the week before to make this special heart-shaped key chain using sheet metal and felt. He told me to use one of the keys on the key chain to check my mailbox. Inside the mailbox was a GPS (Global Positioning System) receiver and a birthday card with balloons and confetti on it. This was my first clue, signaling the beginning of a birthday scavenger hunt. Chris planned it a week earlier than my birthday since we both had a lot of academic commitments for the following weekend and he'd have the benefit of a surprise...How special!

On the birthday card were latitude-longitude coordinates of the location of the next clue, which I would need to find using the GPS receiver. Chris brought me back inside and showed me how to use the GPS receiver, which he'd borrowed from our friend Matt Haugland. Chris packed several bags with items we would need for the day (granola bars, cameras, hiking boots, etc.), then I followed the coordinates of the first clue card to his car, where a second note was waiting. With each location there was a personal note on unique stationary, some corresponding scripture verses, and the latitude and longitude coordinates of the next clue.

The second clue led us a few miles away to the roof of Sarkey's Energy Center (in which the Meteorology Department uses the top five floors), where Chris had left a gas grill for me! He even covered it with a tarp to protect it from the overnight rain. It turns out that Chris had enlisted our friend Bob's help in getting the large grill up the three flights of stairs to the roof late on Friday night. We saw Brad and Andy in the office, who were planning on going out chasing some possible thunderstorms in SW Oklahoma that afternoon. The Storm Prediction Center had issued a moderate risk for severe weather that day. Brad and Andy invited us to join them, but Chris didn't think we'd be done in time. Sneaky guy.

The third clue (inside the grill box) directed us out to Lake Thunderbird, east of Norman. I got the hang of the GPS receiver pretty easily, and had fun guessing where everything was. Chris did a good job driving and following my instructions. The next clue was hidden way off of a hiking trail that Chris and I had walked once the previous fall on a beautiful Sunday afternoon (the day a nice woman and her husband saw us near the side of the road and gave us some rose rocks and red Oklahoma dirt). It was muddy, and I was glad Chris had suggested I bring a spare pair of boots! There were little wildflowers blooming along the path, and we stopped to examine and photograph a miniature turtle on the trail. He was no bigger than a quarter. Following the GPS farther into the woods, I wondered where the note could be. I never would have found the surprise, had I not had the GPS! It was hidden very well underneath a pile of leaves deep in the thicket off of the trail. Chris said he'd placed it there at about 10:30 the night before, in the rain! My goodness! With the fourth clue was a package wrapped in wedding paper -- a Xyron 510 (it's an awesome sticker/ laminator/magnet-making machine that uses no electricity), tucked safely in plastic.

The coordinates of the fourth clue sent us a significant distance away; the GPS said over 90 miles straight. So we picked up a special lunch from Arby's, and headed southwest on I-44. Chris's DeLorme Atlas is labeled with latitude and longitude coordinates, so I was able to determine we should go to the Wichita mountains. Now Chris had taken me to the Wichitas just one week after I moved here in August of 2001. We had great fun enjoying and photographing bison, prairie dogs, and long horn cattle, then hiking up to the top of Elk Mountain, despite the extreme heat.

Again we enjoyed seeing the bison and other wildlife, and then we headed towards the next destination point. There was a great crowd of people and there were several cars in the parking lot at the base of Elk Mountain. Chris was concerned about the crowd, and we were both concerned about the threatening and overcast weather. We changed into shorts for the hike, and began an enjoyable trek up the mountainside. The whole time I had to wonder, "Has he been here already, like the other spots? Or will he just propose at the summit?"

Despite the occasionally drizzling weather, it was an enjoyable hike. There were all sorts of colored wildflowers on both sides of the trail. A few times along the way we had to stop under boulders until the thunder and lightning stopped. We didn't want either of us to be electrocuted! While sitting out one batch of weather, a large Boy Scout troop passed on their way down the mountain. There were about 25 scouts and 12 or so leaders. What a group! There were also a few families coming and going, and we hoped no one would have trouble with the lightning. No one did.

Once we were close to the top, I noticed that the GPS was not directing us toward the summit of this mountain, but towards the summit of an adjoining one. Chris checked some numbers he had with him, and we determined I'd entered the wrong coordinates into the GPS. I fixed the coordinates, but upon reaching the summit, I noticed that we still had not reached our destination according to the GPS receiver. Chris kept encouraging me to just "follow the GPS." I did, and it led me quite a distance off the summit of the mountain, down the back side and around huge boulders and shrubs. Eventually we reached the point indicated by the GPS, and there was nothing plainly visible. Chris had to show me which patch of trees I should look under.

Elaine with the GPS near the summit of Elk Mountain

Elaine retrieving her box

Hidden beneath a large boulder and underneath a tree was a white box (a waterproof electronics box used by the Oklahoma Mesonet for weather observations), which was chained to the tree using a bicycle U-lock. I was nervous as I unlocked and removed the box using the keys on the key ring, and Chris took pictures all the while. Inside were more felt hearts and a red box with hearts on it, tied with a white ribbon. I was nervous to open it, and found two rubber stamps inside: one of a diamond ring, the other of a bride. The card was very touching, and was written on the same style of paper as before, but this time with wedding designs. Chris helped me carry the box back up to the summit of the mountain.

Elaine opening her box below the summit

Once there, he brought out a bag and present, which I unwrapped.



The bow was a little smooshed from the journey, but it was a lovely gift. Inside the paper was a white box, which Chris took. From that box, he removed yet another box. Chris then got down on one knee (among the rocks and in the gravel), and asked me to marry him. I wasted little time in accepting! We cried and hugged for a few minutes, and then Chris noticed a buffalo behind me on the mountaintop! Not one of the other hikers had mentioned seeing a bison, and neither of us had seen it before. There was a buffalo on top of this mountain! So we took some pictures of each other, me wearing the ring, and the bison behind us.

Chris and Elaine shortly after the proposal with a buffalo in the background (really!)

We then hiked back down the mountain, all smiles. Perhaps it would be better to say that we "floated" back down the mountain. We got back to the car around six that evening. On the way home, we each called our parents, and then some friends to share the good news. We stopped for supper in Chickasha at Eduardo's, an excellent Mexican restaurant where we had eaten the previous fall with Rob Young (from my home Church) when he was in the area.

It was only a matter of time before we realized that we had only two options for our wedding plans: this August or next. Summer of 2003 just seemed too far away, so that's how we chose this August for our wedding! Classes won't begin at OU until the 26th, and Chris will have three weeks after our honeymoon to study for his Ph.D. qualifying exam. It just seems like the best timing.



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